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It’s my birthday today, and I have always been one of those folks who really enjoys birthdays. In fact, I am a bit of a birthday baby. Cake. Candles. Presents. All of that stuff gives me great joy. My birthday comes on the heels of the holiday season and just one week after my late brother Roger’s birthday, so while I was growing up, the day was more like an addendum to Christmas and New Year’s. And Roger and I often shared our birthday parties. (Not like that was so bad; it meant there were always boys at my parties, and I always did like boys at my parties.)

Perhaps it is my birthday’s proximity to New Year’s Day that makes me not only want to think about new beginnings (as we are wont to do around this time) but also to reflect on what has already occurred. Looking back over last year I realize that I had a good one (I think I already knew that, but it helps to remind oneself) and that I have been the recipient of many good fortunes. My own life has been better than satisfactory over these last twelve months, with very few personal sadnesses. Of course I, like so many others, do feel the despair of recent tragedies and I hope that we can figure new ways of being that might prevent such things happening in the future. And I know that my own personal joys are small on the grand scale.

They are, however, joys. And since it is my birthday, and I am a birthday baby, I will take a little time now to reflect.

Things That Made My Year (in no particular order and in no way all-inclusive):

And this stuff above is just about the joys I have received because of my writing and particularly my book, The Temple of Air. My biggest joys really have very little to do with this. They are those moments I share with the people (and cats) most important to me.577758_10200168397910681_62515322_n Philip Hartigan—my greatest delight. Pablo and Enrique, our cat children. My family (brothers and half-brothers, nieces and nephews, cousins and in-laws near and far.) My friends (you know who you are!) Colleagues. Students.042211194516

So here’s to a magnificent 2012! And also to the promise of 2013! Happy New Year, everyone. And as always, thanks for reading. -PMc

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2 Responses

  1. Did you get pears?

    No, really: great post, amazing achievements. Funny photos. You deserve all of this and more. And otra vez: feliz cumpleaños!

    Sent from my Cricket smartphone

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